tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post2158559203796793349..comments2024-03-23T08:25:22.526-04:00Comments on ED Bites: "I was a baby bulimic"Carrie Arnoldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02569839838912988783noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-70027330390499667562009-07-17T22:22:48.251-04:002009-07-17T22:22:48.251-04:00Honestly, I was really inspired by the way he was ...Honestly, I was really inspired by the way he was willing to show the truth of his past to so many people--that takes incredible courage. I've struggled with a binge eating disorder (no purging, just frequent binges and the occasional period of restriction) for most of my life, but I didn't realize what it was until about two years ago. The shame that goes along with an ED is really hard to carry sometimes, and every time I share a little bit of my truth with someone I think the load gets a tiny bit lighter. <br /><br />Anyway, I've recently been following your blog, and today I started my own...hopefully to use as a tool to help me in recovery. I'd be grateful for any support and will definitely offer it in return. Keep up the hard work dear!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08489299990479818278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-25781321768435366172009-07-17T20:02:39.711-04:002009-07-17T20:02:39.711-04:00I couldn't read very far into it because of ho...I couldn't read very far into it because of how graphic he was in his descriptions. I haven't purged in years but I don't need to be reminded of what it's like. <br /><br />It sounds like an interesting article but it hits a bit too close to home for me personally...Crimson Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03254830856234479999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-22099900788258680982009-07-17T14:45:40.031-04:002009-07-17T14:45:40.031-04:00I thought that it was a great article, well-writte...I thought that it was a great article, well-written (yes, funny, even though it was sad too), and although I can't relate to all of the details, I certainly can to some (his mother's conflict with food and how that was projected onto him, for example). There is an excellent review of the excerpt in Salon (http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/07/17/bruni_ed/index.html). The writer points out that while he seems to succeed in "getting a handle" on the bulimic tendencies, he doesn't immediately develop a healthy relationship with food and weight but continues to wage war against himself.Kristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208374967597840745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-51146557025005729102009-07-17T10:07:28.773-04:002009-07-17T10:07:28.773-04:00Yep Males with ED, we are out there. My parents p...Yep Males with ED, we are out there. My parents put me on a diet at age 11 and I was on one till I moved out. Then there was a bounce back and I ended up over 450 lbs. So you guessed it another diet. over 15 months on it and I'm at 222 lbs (still not small enough yet). I only eat 1000-1300 calories a day and exercise 2 hrs a day 6 day's a week. But I can't have an ED because I'm still obese. I though my therapist was going to hit me when I said that. I realy hate this ED thing, when dietician said she wanted to "stabalize" my weight I went right to barganing that I would follow the eating plan, yeah right. Sorry I am man hear me roar.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-29917637209671455312009-07-17T08:40:54.211-04:002009-07-17T08:40:54.211-04:00At first glance, the title put me off but then whe...At first glance, the title put me off but then when I saw that he was a food writer I figured maybe it was tongue-in-cheek, or that he would write of a very brief period in his childhood when he had that behavior. When I started reading and saw that at least when he was very young he seemed to be having an emotional response (some people throw up when very upset, some cry, etc.) but then when he got to the heart of the story I could see that he meant the title quite seriously. <br /><br />To be frank, I found the graphic description of his trips to the bathroom quite disturbing and it even made me feel a bit ill. I'm sure someone who had the experience might not have that response but I really had trouble getting through it. And I must admit that I found it a bit surprising to read about a male bulimic, because so much of the media and public discussions focus on women.<br /><br />In the end, I was very happy to see that he was able to not only end the behavior, but become a food writer. I happen to have a great admiration for anyone who can eat and write about food for a living in today's food-phobic, fat-phobic society.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6561748834204284315.post-47291743194797922522009-07-17T04:46:58.733-04:002009-07-17T04:46:58.733-04:00I'm sure that the number of males with eating ...I'm sure that the number of males with eating disorders is GROSSLY under-estimated. I often wonder whether my own grandfather, a captain in the Royal Navy expected to eat gluttonous amounts at official functions and actually provided with the means and encouragement to purge, developed bulimia.Fiona Marcellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07985022521354870620noreply@blogger.com